Thursday, November 5, 2009

Happy BirthdayMom!!

My Mom was joined by her 8 children,
(and a few grandchildren too) for a birthday breakfast!!

WE LOVE OUR MOM!!!!




"A mother is a person
who seeing there are only four pieces of pie
for five people,
promptly announces
she never did care for pie."
~Tenneva Jordan

Saturday, October 31, 2009

a box and a rope

the favorite toys as of late....i love the way boys create fun out of "everyday" items.
I stopped by a local appliance store and humbly asked for an extra box. They were happy to part with it and the boys had days of indoor fun....
and then we have the faithful rope, this thing turned up out of nowhere and has been the best "toy" this entire Summer and Fall. Thank you Mr. Rope for entertaining my children.....

I have this great piece of paper on our refrigerator. I picked in up at the bank earlier this Summer. It's a helpful reminder of the endless ways we can turn everyday moments into fun learning opportunities. Try adding some of these to your regular routine:

  • let your child help
  • pretend
  • have a conversation
  • introduce a new food
  • sing a song
  • ask your child's opinion
  • invent something
  • laugh together
  • share a memory
  • go outside
  • play a game

Paisley is 6 months old!


Yesterday our sweet Baby turned 6 months old! Oh, we are so in love with her!! She brings great JOY to all of us, her Daddy and Mommy and her two big brothers!
She is the apple of her Daddy's eye. I see God's love in the way Jake loves her.
Secure. Confident. Assured. Safe.
"Let the beloved of the LORD rest secure in him,
for he shields him all day long,
and the one the LORD loves rests between his shoulders."
Deuteronomy 33:12


Monday, October 26, 2009

anderson cooper

looks like my husband....seriously, i was thrown for a loop!

My niece put that picture of Anderson on her facebook with the caption that says, "I heart Anderson Cooper" and here are the comments that were left......

Janelle Stoltzfus
me too. he is so calm, he reminds me of Jake when I watch him 'cause he doesn't have much facial expression, but he means so deeply what he says!!
October 21 at 10:57pm

Lindsay Beiler
and he looks like Jake-holy cow. when i was in NYC a few years ago with my school we went to the CNN studio and he was there!! i freaked out.
October 22 at 3:40pm

Mitch Smucker
first thing i thought when i saw this picture was..Jake?? ha,then i read these comments and see i'm not the only one.
Sat at 10:20pm

Carson Smucker
Anderson Cooper's got nothin on Uncle Jake!!!
Yesterday at 12:53pm

Janelle Stoltzfus
he really does look like Jake in this picture....all focused and stuff! mitch, that's funny you thought that!

Megan Beiler
hahahahaah! this is hilarious. all the comments. and the picture. and the fact that he really does look like Uncle Jake. wow..
Yesterday at 7:28pm
I got a good laugh out of all that......

Thursday, October 22, 2009

Our 1st Tea Party

What a delightful day, my daughter and I had our first tea party. My dear friend and mentor Orpha treated Paisley & I to "high tea" at a local tea shop. It felt so good to get all dolled up and sit down to a quiet meal so elegantly served. Orpha held Paisley, kissing and hugging and cuddling her while I enjoyed every.single.bite and sip of my meal. Thank you Orpha for taking the time to make such sweet memories for me. Thank you also for giving me a break from the ordinary day-to-day life and making me feel like such a Lady! I am so blessed to have Godly, wise, real, integral, quality women in my life. It has always been important to me to have someone speaking into my life and that I am in turn speaking into someone else's life. On some days that "someone" may be my children, and on other days it may be a friend who needs a listening ear or a "shoulder to cry on." We all have someone in our life that we can give to, but do we have someone that gives to us? I encourage you today, that if you don't have someone you look up to, someone that builds you up and gives you sound counsel.....pray them into your life. God works through people, through relationships, through accountability and through cups of tea!

"Godly women~
may we be them,
may we know them,
may we raise them."
~unknown author~

Sunday, October 18, 2009

Logan

Today I, along with many others, remember the unbelievably short life that Logan Stoltzfus lived. He is the first born son to my dear friend Kara. He was born on October 18th, 2005 and died shortly after birth....he was perfect, although his lungs were not strong enough to support his life. Isn't he beautiful? They have never been the same and yet they have courageously continued living. What did not break them brought them closer together. I can say that I have watched in amazement at the unity that has taken place between she and her husband over the past four years.
I remember the morning well, receiving the phone call and collapsing to my knees, an instinctual reaction when crises hits. My heart couldn't handle what my mind was telling me. I barely slept for days as I called my family and friends with my raw, grieving voice and my broken heart. How will we get through this? How will I help my friend from drowning in these unknown waters? It was a storm, an unexpected, fast and furious storm. I'm sure there are many reading this now that understand what that looks and feels like.

Seven days after he was born, he was buried. This is what I wrote in my journal the night after his funeral. As I read it again today, I feel it just the same, possibly even deeper:

"Tonight I touched heaven....what courage I sensed in Clark and Kara this evening. Grace was thick in the air. I was surprised at how well she was doing. I was almost sick with nerves as we approached her parents place. I didn't know what she would be/act like during the funeral. She was so composed, elegant, graceful ~ a Mother. I knelt at his tiny white casket and touched his cold skin, his perfect face and long fingers. He just looked like he was sleeping, peacefully sleeping. He little mouth was open like a baby robin....waiting to be fed. But no earthly food will stain those lips, only the spirit food of heaven! How wonderful! How delicious!.....My Mother heart beats with hers....God, be near."
And He was....and He has.....not always in obvious ways, but there nonetheless. They felt abandoned, helpless and hopeless at times, God seeming so far away. So many of their hopes, plans and dreams came to a screeching halt. Those days were hard and foggy, I remember her using the word "nightmare" more then a time or two. I say this now, not because their life is perfect, but because it is healing....the wound isn't quite so exposed. The skin of time has formed a scab. But there is and always will be a scar, a remembrance of what was or could have been. He will never be forgotten or replaced. Even as I watch Tyler grow I think of him. He and Tyler were 6 months apart and I am sure they would both be tall like their Daddy's.
Over the past four years they have had two healthy, beautiful children. Maddie is 3 and Max is 4 months old. I see Logan in him.
"When you've been broken, broken to pieces.
And Your heart begins to faint 'cause you don't understand.
And when there is nothing to rake from the ashes.
And you can't even walk onto the fields of praise.

I bow down and kiss the Son.
Oh, and I bow down and kiss the Son.
Let the praise of the Lord be in my mouth.
Let the praise of the Lord be in my mouth.

Well, though You slay me, I will trust You, Lord.
Well, though You slay me, I will trust You, Lord.
Though You slay me, I will trust You, Lord.
Though You slay me, I will trust You, Lord.

When the rock falls, falls upon you.
And you get ground to dust,
no music for your pain.
You open the windows, the windows of heaven.
And then You opened me and
You crushed me like a rose."

~"Kiss the Son" by Kevin Prosch~

Thursday, October 15, 2009

Paisley's 1st Tooth!!

My Baby Girl cut her first tooth today! Oh, the love of it all!! Poor Dear had 4 different fingers in her mouth at the dinner table tonight, to feel this new "breakthrough": Daddy, Mommy, Tyler and Luke.....
I would have NEVER done that with my firstborn....
put other people's fingers in his mouth on purpose...
ALOT changes the more children you have!

She brings such JOY to our lives!

"Laughter is like changing a baby’s diaper.
It doesn’t permanently solve any problems,
but it makes things more acceptable
for a while."

~Unknown~